Help!!!! Am I bi-ual, Gay or just confused!!!!!!?

If you are attracted to both male and female, then I would say that you are bi - BUT maybe you are not ready to have that label yet. It sounds to me as if you two are already in a relationship, but you are just trying to justify yourself. The best thing I can tell you is to just do you, meaning whatever makes you happy - f*@k what anybody else thinks - but don't string anyone along while you try to decide...