Ok I need help..famlily wise..I am 47 and live in Tn born in Fla been a fla girl all my life we all relocate?

to Tennessee Mom dad sis niece and nephwe....My daughter and granddaughter howver live in Baton roughe and want me to come therm to be closer to them...I am a depressing catch 22...any ideas?? I am not keen on baton rough lots of bad memories...tennesssee isn't what I thought it would be and Fla is on the back burner but I would be alone again...help meh!!!